Ever feel like you lie for no apparent reason? If you’re a serial liar, or one that lies to the people that matter. Nothing could be closer to the truth. Sometimes, a white lie can be better than the harsh truth. Almost all the time, lying is an easier and safer alternative. Nearly any adult will tell you that lying is wrong. But when it comes to avoiding trouble, saving face in front of the boss, or sparing someone’s feelings, many people find themselves doing it anyway. In fact, more than 80 percent of women admit to occasionally telling what they consider harmless half-truths.
Why tell yourself things that will never come true. But one crazy thing about the mind is that once you start telling yourself. You soon start to believe it. Some lies I tell myself are moving to a mansion, or even winning the lottery. Even though a lot of the lies I tell myself are unrealistic. But it feels good to be able to believe in something different and have some kind of faith. To take something that’s obviously self-delusion, try to push people to keep doing, and when it fails, push the solution as doing even more of it. This is exactly the same process as religious and cult doctrines which state that the only way out of the inevitable doubts is to believe even more. The reason why people lie is for self-preservation. While it may be instinctual, people who frequently cover up innocent errors may start to feel as if they have permission to be irresponsible. What’s more, it can become grueling for them to keep track of those deceptions.
The reason why I tell myself these little white lies is because it is the only way I can peace of mind and happiness. With so many things going on around me I can never have time to myself. So lying about the little seems to help me get thru the tough times. Yes, there are times when lying is acceptable, but only when it's a white lie that is not going to harm anybody. The question isn't whether we lie. WE...